if it's real..

If it's real. Is it real? What is real? Real means actually existing as a thing or occurring in fact. It is something that is not imagined or supposed. It is something that is not imitated or artificial. It is pure and genuine and real. It provides clarity. It allows your mind of overwhelming thoughts to come to a stop and just live in the moment because you have nothing to know about because you know that it's real.

"If it's real...it will come back."

If it's real, it will come back. Time is everything in life. Sometimes people stay. Sometimes people leave. Sometimes one way, sometimes the next. Love is worth it. Sometimes, people have to grow apart and grow as individuals before they are able to grow together as one. And that is okay. It is all our first time in life. We are all human and still learning. If it's real, it will come back. Sometimes you know in your heart that you feel this way, but you have to go away before you can figure it out and do it right. Sometimes people just are not meant to be in the moment, sometimes it just isn't their time yet to have each other. If it's truly meant for you, it will never not be a piece of you. People have a tie to one another, so if it is meant to be, it will be. Take a moment and work on yourself, then try again. If it's real, it will come back.

"If it's real...it should have never left."

If it's real, it should have never left. You don't deserve someone who would leave you. Life has its ups and downs, but it is truly all about fighting for it. Life only happens once. We only get one chance. So why would you give up when it gets hard? Why not fight for what you truly care about? Why not fight for what truly makes you happy? Why not fight for what is real?

However on the other hand, if it is not meant to be, don't let it be. Do not let someone have to tell you twice that they do not want you in their life. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be. Although it may be frustrating, God has something better waiting on you. One day you will be able to realize that along the way, He is teaching you the qualities that you want to see in someone and also the qualities that you do not want to see in someone. You are people too. You deserve to be treated right, take care of yourself. If it's real, it should have never left.

"If it's real..."

It honestly in my opinion could be both. You never know what can happen in life. Just trust your process and be happy with the little things and having the experience. Things happen, we must accept it, embrace it, and learn from it. It's ok to stay hopeful, but it is important to also keep living your life so that you can take care of yourself no matter the outcome. Sometimes love or whatever you are dealing with doesn't win and sometimes it does. You need to let go and move on. What is meant for you will be yours. If what you thought was meant for you isn't your's, then there is something far better meant for you in the future.

I believe in second chances. This is everyone's first time doing life, so nobody is going to do it perfectly. We are all human. However, it is important to handle everything with grace and maturity. Feelings are complicated and fragile. It is was makes us human. Everyone makes mistakes. Mistakes allow you to learn and grow. By giving second chances, you are allowing someone the opportunity to apply their new knowledge and do it right and do it better than before.

"Love never fails"- 1 Corrinthians 13:8

If it does, it was never true. God has a plan. His plan is greater than you will ever know. It is aligned just for you, you just need to trust in Him, His timing, and remain patient. Trust and lean in Him in this difficult season. He has a plan for you, trust in His timing.

You can survive being left by the world. However, you will never survive leaving yourself. Choose yourself. Even the most beautiful flowers wither. Look back on how beautiful it was in the spring. Everything is real. Don't dwell because you can't change it anyway. Just let whatever happens happen. The past is just a lesson for the future. Do not live in the past, live in the present and live for the future. For now, focus on yourself and remember to always give grace:)